SOCIAL-DREAMIUM

The worst part of every relationship is the moment of separation. This span of time can be really hard and all we do is weep. Relationships are so firmly built that tears trickle down the cheeks inevitably. Even if it’s a relationship that is a few days old, you always feel the hollow dent created by the lack of it. The worst separation of all is the separation from your family. The grief is extreme and it might be really hard to take. Students face this moment at some stage of their life and people working abroad also do the same. They have to leave home their parents, wives and more importantly their kids. It’s tough and horrifying.

The amount of grief is directly proportional to the strength of your relationship. Separation is always a necessary aspect of life. This will strengthen your relation with your family and you will be able to see the influence on you in the period of separation. Never mind about missing them as it will only give you that extra bit of affection towards them. Make sure you respect your relation when you are with them because you will be able to feel their love only in their absence!!!

Relationships are hard to construct and you have to be really careful in handling them. Do you know what the biggest enemy to relationships is? Quite simply, it’s your anger. Controlling your emotions can be really tough indeed. Relations will always be troubling you with petty things. However, if you are keen in staying in good terms, you have to maintain your composure. Never show your face to them. Anger is always your first enemy. Most of the relationships are brought down by this. If you feel some friction in your relation, then you have to make sure that you sit down and talk.

There is no better solution than talking to them about the incident. Show your heart, not your face! This will be able to solve even the biggest of problems. Also, you have to be good to them. Remember; do unto others as you would have them do unto you! Maintaining relations is a tough job. The finicky nature of humans is another disadvantage. Have faith in them. This is the building block a good relation. Have a smiling face that will take you places. It’s more about building a relationship than beginning one. Make the world a better place to live in. Cheers!!!

School life is no doubt one of the happiest parts of life. People look back at their school life with a heavy heart and it inevitably turns out to be their happiest days. The reason for this is that all their friends were naive and unsophisticated. The frankness among the kids makes school days enjoyable. However, as years pass by, people change leaving only footmarks behind. It is very difficult for us to keep track of our school friends and as days pass, we lose track of them. Life goes on so quickly that we even forget their faces. Schools are heavens on earth.

It is almost impossible for us to find another place as wonderful as our schools. That was the place where our first relationship bloomed and we came to know what love and friendship meant. There are people in this world who still place their school friends on top of their family and other friends and love to hang out with them. Despite numerous relationships blooming after this heavenly period, it is that friendship that lasts forever. We used to share our thoughts and feelings with our beloved ones without a tinge of selfishness. Every other relationship in this world has that wicked aspect attached to it. There can be no second thoughts over the beauty of school life and school friendships!!!

“The world is one”. Well, that is what we have been hearing from the saints and other prophets. But, are we taking it in the right sense and are we going by it? Not exactly! In a world where the number of greedy hearts outnumbers the selfless ones, one cannot expect a better answer to that question. Selfish people are countless and you will inevitably end up meeting one every day. The reason for this is quite simply, the lack of discipline and the improper way in which they are brought up. Despite all the parental care and affection showered on them, they might lose their way at some stage of their life.

The greed for money and fame are just two of the many reasons for this selfish attitude in people. They see the positive side of everything but one step too many. They are extremely positive which eventually turns into greed. Greed for women is yet another aspect which is not even worth discussing here. Selfless people are considerate and passionate about their family and friends. They strive hard to keep their relations. The selfish are just too far away from these sorts of things and end up with absolutely nothing!!!

Parental care is care and affection shown by parents to their off springs and involves increasing the fitness of the offspring at their own expense. The degree of parental care differs widely. Some of the methods to implement parental care nowadays are a form of lengthening maternity and paternity and parenting care rights, children rights, tax credits, flexible working, child care and pre-school provisions and subsidies, and the importance of family environment and child security building in issues of fostering and child protection etc. Another important aspect is how the characteristics of the home and the child care setting together affect children’s development. However, research that is available suggests that children from families with lower educational and economic resources cannot benefit from the under nourished environments.

If the care setting is more luxurious, it will have a stronger impact in reducing the effect of maternal/paternal control on the child psychological balance. However, children whose parents are low on care are more vulnerable to develop lower self esteem as parental control increases, which then lead to negative mental health outcomes in this group. It is a crucial period in life which will determine the outcome of the child’s future. Indeed, parenting is tough!!!

Love is the one that can never be measured with any scale in this eternal world. This particular feeling is said to have been ruling the world from ancient times. I don’t think many would have been interested to find out what makes it very special. There are many perspectives of looking at love but the ultimate essence of this particular feeling remains the same. Not many are able to taste this beautiful feeling. Of course, this feeling still prevails in the earth due to the existence of people who realize the importance of this and the advantages of this ‘love’ to the human race.

It cannot be easily felt by anyone who doesn’t know how to have a concern about others. Basically understanding of love requires tender care about others and a thought that other souls also have heart and life. When one gets such a realization about the concern for others, he starts learning the art of love, which is said to be the language of hearts. Analyzing the root of evolution of this feeling, it takes us to the most beautiful relation in the world, nothing but the love bond between a child and a mother. It is the starting point where anyone learns what love is and how to show it to others and win their hearts.

One of the worst things to have been invented on this planet is money. This has been the primary reason for all forms criminal and unethical activities. Money has been a major drive force that keeps people away from their relations. Money keeps people on the prowl trying to secure more of them. In the process, they lose their kindness and ethics. Earning money is important but you can’t be so insane to earn that in the wrong ways. Human ethics is far more important than making money. Respecting people and relations is the crux of leading a healthy life.

People have not yet realized the power of the social animals. They are more interested in making dollars than spending a night with their friends. Ethics is a vast topic which needs to be discussed in detail. There are millions of ways to earn money but its really hard to earn a good relation. Aristotle and Socrates were the predecessors of this subject and you can learn a lot through their works. Try to respect people and their value. You can also find a lot more about human value in a wide field called Virtue Ethics. Try to be yourself. Shed your penchant for money!!!

We have parents, we have friends and we have other relationships! But do you know what that unique thing that binds us all together is? Well, its a simple five letter word in English- Trust. You can even call it faith. If you are looking at having a friend for your entire journey of life, then you ought to have trust and faith in him. It is nothing but the belief that your friend will be good to you. How and when do you know you can trust people? This is more a contextual question, than a straight forward one. The world is getting smaller each day and trusting people can be harmful at times.

However, there can be no second thoughts over the fact that trust is the driving force that keeps people together. Parents believe in their wards. You don’t expect your dad to follow you to your school every day, do you? Husbands trust their wives and vice versa. It is almost impossible to find a good relation without the parties having faith in each other. It is the first step of getting yourself loved. Make sure you trust the right people at the right time with the right intention. Life will be a better journey for sure!!!

Since the evolution of mankind there has always been an attraction towards the opposite gender. We all know that it is a natural feeling. But can it be called as love? Love has several dimensions. Love for parents, children, family and many people show extreme love towards animals and so on. But with respect to a boy and a girl, what can be called as love? When a guy or a girl like each other just because of their external appearance, can it be said as love? It is just an attraction that binds them together. It happens due to the biological changes that take place within the human body. But attraction can be considered as the basis for love.

When they get attracted towards each other, they start building a relationship. They understand each other very well and start sharing their life experiences. If their character matches each other’s expectation, their relationship gets stronger. Eventually they start showing care and affection towards each other, and during this stage their love gets a complete posture. But have you ever thought that after showing too much affection on each other, how do sometimes they get separated? The answer is simple. Love cannot be complete without trusting each other and getting adjusted to each other’s character. So never question the other person’s love towards you.

There are many ways to shower your love and affection on your relations. We have seen people kissing, having a light hearted moment cracking jokes, sitting in silence staring at each other, etc. However, there is nothing better than sending a greeting card. This has been the age old method of showing your love. Be it Christmas or New Year, people had the habit of sending greeting cards. This practice died down, thanks to emails and other electronic versions. Well, whatever you call it, these affectionate cards can never be replaced.

This archaic method is still in practice, which is good to hear. Purchasing cards is one of the toughest jobs but people love to do that. You get to know the various availabilities and by the time you pick one, you would have already done justice to your relation. Even if it is an inexpensive card, the pain you took will always be reciprocated at the other side. Even if you talk over phone for hours together, this is a completely different and unique feeling. Imagine the kind of pleasure and happiness that your parents will feel when you send them a card on their 25th anniversary. Well, that’s the strength of greeting cards and it shows the power of an emotional relationship!!!